Watch Out, Dating An Attractive Woman?

Let's be honest – who doesn't want to date an attractive bombshell? They are show stoppers wherever they go, have men drooling all over them as they possess all the right reasons to boost a man's self-esteem and even multiplying his sexual desirability. And, no points for guessing – pretty women know it all!

Considering that the woman of your dreams is constantly flooded with proposals and can afford to be selective about the men she dates, knowing how to deal with a pretty lass and win her is no child's play. You really need to think of 'out-of-the-box' ideas when dating an attractive woman. Here are some tips to help you...

Don't pamper her

Not surprisingly, attractive women love to be pampered, needless to say – they are also high maintenance. So, don't spoil her with expensive gifts or a lavish dinner incessantly. Don't pay attention to her over every little thing as that is what she is most likely expecting. Treat her like she is nothing extraordinary and don't be surprised if she makes the first move... Sarika Gupta (name changed on request), 25, a media professional confesses, "I may sound arrogant, but I have always been considered very good-looking. Whenever I am out with my friends or at a party, being approached by men doesn't come as a surprise anymore, but I believe it gets irritating after a while. I wonder how many of these men are interested in knowing me and not just intimidated by my looks alone. And the day I find such a guy, I don't mind being the one who pops the question."

Ignore her whims

No matter how awestruck you are by her looks, don't show it blatantly. Try looking around at other women. Good-looking women have more than they could ask for, especially when it comes to seeking flattery and attention from men. So, what do you do to catch her eye? Be different. Even if you want to start a conversation, talk to her like you would talk to any other person. Pick up lines are a complete no-no. Dr. Ritu Nanda, a psychologist and counselor explains, "It's natural for a person to be attracted to someone who isn't giving him/her the attention he/she is used to. Most women feel uncomfortable talking to a stranger. So, one should be very careful with how you begin your conversation with a woman."

Don't push for sex

She is gorgeous, sexy and you just can't get your eyes off her, you want to grab her right away, but hold on. When you look at her with lust, she knows exactly what's on your mind. So take it easy. Play-hard-to get, don't give in to her easily. Say something like, "You are not up to my expectations" or "Let's just be friends to begin with." The less desperate you are, the more magnetic the sexual pull. Manmeet Bhalla, a marriage and relationship counselor suggests, "You are most likely to scare someone away if you sound too desperate for sex before the person is even thinking about it. It's very important to be patient before you advance in a relationship. Mutual consent and compatibility is of utmost importance."